Daily Triggers: Consuming Netflix Media as a Survivor

I’m a big fan of true crime and thriller shows and movies. Lately, I’ve been more sensitive to triggers like explicit content in these kinds of media. Hence, I rely heavily on the warnings that appear across the screen prior to starting a show or movie. Some producers do a very good job at making it clear that a certain piece of media will include depictions or mentions of sexual assault or...

Healing Old Wounds and Finding New Strength

My name is Brina Gartner and I am very proud to say that my son is the Interim Second Vice President of this remarkable organization.  I am writing this article to begin to heal a wound that I have carried for over 30 years.  I am doing this for myself in the hopes that it will also bring some understanding to the reader about how different things are now from when I was young, and how...

Why Body Neutrality is a Better Approach for Me as a Sexual Assault Survivor

From a very young age, I became aware of my body as an object. When my grandmother would tell me “sit up straight” or “suck in that belly,” I began to internalize this constant external scrutiny of my body. Like me, many young people are taught that we are not worthy of love, attention, and praise until we look a certain way. We are implicitly and explicitly told that we are meant to be...

Helping Survivors Learn to Love Their Bodies

We are living in the era of social media. While we are constantly connected with one another and always in-the-know, we are also exposed to an endless amount of content from seemingly perfect people with glamorous lives. Apps like Instagram constantly expose us to polished pictures that make us hyper-aware of our own insecurities. The use of social media has become a norm among preteens and...

Writing as a Form of Healing

As an English major with an emphasis in creative writing, I had the opportunity to work on an honors thesis for a quarter during my senior year. While it was more common to write fiction or poetry for the project, I chose to craft a collection of personal essays dedicated to making sense of some of the most pivotal and emotional moments in my life. As challenging as it was to revisit these...